My Perfect Mate

 

I am into astrology as far as who I am, who you are, and compatibility of two people. It helps me to get to know you in a more detailed way and know if we would be good together or just a trainwreck waiting to happen. In the past I have not bothered so much with the astrological sign a person was before I began a relationship with them. I have come to find out that I tend to pick people whom are the worst compatibility for me which creates huge problems in our relationship of which it is extremely hard to look past, compromise and deal with. So this time around I am taking careful note to what sign a person is so I do not get into another bad relationship. I have laid out my compatibility signs courtesy of http://www.cafeastrology.com/leosunsigncompatibility.html. People with these signs are whom I wish to find as a mate. Anyone who aren't these signs, I don't think in the long run it would work out since I am so different than most people.

I am a Leo and proud so hear me roar! 

 

My perfect compatible astrological mate: Hot - Your Sun signs are trine. Your individual emotional dispositions are similar enough to                                                                                                    understand, and different enough to be exciting.

 

• Sagittarius: Warmth, enthusiasm, vitality, and joy are kindled when the two of you are together, and there is great magnetism between you. 

                         SAGITTARIUS draws LEO out, evoking the more light-hearted, fun-loving side of LEO. SAGITTARIUS also keeps LEO from  
                         getting stuck in a rut, introducing new ideas and experiences that LEO enjoys. This is a mutually beneficial relationship which
                         promises lots of good times and a very active life together. 

                         SAGITTARIUS's frequent indifference or obliviousness to others' personal feelings can result in blunt comments that wound    
                         LEO's easily hurt pride. LEO is also more loyal than SAGITTARIUS is, who tends to wander (in actuality and fantasy) more than
                         LEO does.
 

• ​​Aries: Both of you are independent, self-motivated individuals, very much concerned with your own creative work and interests, and you prefer 

               not to feel like you "own" each other. ARIES, however, often acts in a manner that is socially inappropriate while LEO is more aware of

               appearances and is more concerned with the response of others. ARIES is somewhat indifferent to other people's opinions, while LEO

               craves approval and affirmation from others.

 

               You are both immensely proud and neither of you wants to take the back seat in this relationship. There is a great deal of harmony

               between you, but being two spirited and somewhat volatile people, when you clash your fights are likely to be dramatic and boisterous. 

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Other less compatible signs: Harmonious - Your Sun signs are sextile. You appreciate one another's emotional style. It's easy to collaborate with one another.
 

• Gemini:You both have a very childlike, playful, fun-loving side that is brought out when you are together. You both love drama and color, and
              you find one another to be delightful and interesting. GEMINI is more intellectual than LEO, however, and needs a variety of people,
              activities, and interests in order to be happy. LEO wants to be the most important person in GEMINI's life, and may not appreciate all
              of GEMINI's other interests and friendships. LEO makes commitments and keeps them better than GEMINI does because LEO is
              less restless. Once having found something good, LEO sticks with it, and doesn't completely understand GEMINI's desire for novelty.
              Also, LEO is very proud and has a sensitive ego, while GEMINI can be a merciless teaser and doesn't always take LEO seriously. For
              the most part, however, you are great friends and can be very compatible lovers.
   

• Libra: This can be a very warm and mutually fulfilling relationship. Both of you are romantics at heart and tend to be "in love with love". You
           both need and love romantic gestures, the giving and receiving of gifts, etc. Personal appearances and attractiveness is important to
           both of you as well, and you both are somewhat vain.
  
           LEO is more decisive and very clear about personal preferences and desires, while LIBRA is more flexible and will compromise
           graciously in order to please LEO. LEO is more self-absorbed or self-centered than LIBRA. Of the two of you, LEO is the stronger
           individual, and the balance of power in your relationship may be somewhat lopsided. However, LIBRA has a highly developed sense of
           fairness and equality, and will protest sooner or later if LEO begins to expect obeisance all of the time.

 

Opposites attract mate: Opposites Attract! - Your Sun signs are opposite. You find each other fascinating, frustrating, and intriguing--all at the same time!

 

• Aquarius: AQUARIUS is drawn to LEO's warmth and vitality, and LEO is drawn to AQUARIUS's uniqueness, intelligence, and savvy. There are
                 significant differences between you though. AQUARIUS's colleagues, associates, and large social circle of friends and
                 acquaintances are a very important part of AQUARIUS's life, while AQUARIUS's need for close, personal relationships is not as
                 great as LEO's. This characteristic is also reflected in your relationship! AQUARIUS may seem cool and aloof to LEO. From
                 AQUARIUS's perspective, LEO takes life too personally and seems to dramatize events, idolize individuals, and, in general, be too
                 self-absorbed. You are truly opposites in many ways and can certainly benefit from one another's attitudes and insights.
   

• A woman who is into a variety of music especially metal/hard rock. I am a huge metalhead but I do love most all types of music. Possibly a woman who plays music such as guitar or drums or even sings.

 

• Someone who is into sports. I am a huge sports nut and spend my weekends ( Fri - Sun) watching Nascar (usually all day long). On Sundays when in season I also watch football. I also watch other sports like baseball and golf so a perfect mate would have to enjoy watching those with me or be able to put up with me watching sports all the time.

 

• Someone who is into board/card games and would join a game group with me and enjoy playing a variety of games with me not just certain games like only monopoly or only scrabble but will play or at least try other games such as euro strategy games.

 

• Someone who can hold a conversation with me and enjoy talking about anything (sex, religion, politics, sports, music, weather, history, science, news, movies/tv, ect). Also when having a conversation, the perfect mate would have to be able to debate things rather than be argumentative and think they know everything and I know nothing and am stupid.

 

• Someone who would not belittle me and put me down by calling me names like stupid or dumb or make me feel like I have no intelligence and am wrong all the time and don't know what I am talking about. Someone who would help build up my self esteem and confidence and make me feel like I am very intelligent which I am. 

 

• The perfect mate would have to be someone who wants to spend time and be with me no matter what it is we are doing even if they don't particularly enjoy it.

 

• Someone who is strong on their own two feet, can take care of themselves, has intelligence and doesn't bullshit around. I prefer a woman of whom I don't have to make all the decisions and make their every move for them. Someone who can think for themselves. Someone who is honest and tells it like it is. Doesn't let people push them around but at the same time is nice, warm, caring, and inviting. A perfect mate is a woman who knows how to just relax in life and have fun while still being mature enough to take care of life's responsibilities.

 

• A woman who likes cuddling and kissing and is into sex and willing to try new things like sex camming or threesoms, ect and hopefully knows a thing or two. You don't have to be into everything and some things I do understand may not be for you and that is ok.
   

• I would love to find a woman who likes to take showers with their man! I love to take showers with my woman but most women I have been with tell me they hate it. I find it kind of romantic, sexy, fun and yes sexual. I love to wash each other and just have fun with it. That being said, no I am not being childish and needing someone to wash me like a baby as some have told me. I can take showers by myself and wash myelf. I just enjoy being with a woman in the shower and having fun showering together. Plus most of the time it saves on shower time and water! Especially if you don't have much time and need to shower.
   

• Any woman would have to be able to handle my craziness. I am not easy to deal with at all and can go through mood swings and be very argumentative. A perfect mate would have to be able to handle my kid at heart side where I tend to just take off my adult costume and be a bit of a big kid such as I love watching cartoons so as to not take life so damn seriously all the time. The Perfect mate would have to be able to handle the fact that I love to be 'mothered' when I am sick.

 

• Also the perfect mate would have to be able to deal with my being hearing impaired. I don't always hear things so I tend to say 'what' a lot or ask you to repeat yourself. Probably more than I really need to. I also tend to get loud when I talk. I f you can't handle me being hearing impaired then this is a deal breaker for obvious reasons. This is one thing about me that I can't change even tho I would love to!

That is my perfect mate. However, this is reality not a work of fiction. It is extremely rare to find the 'perfect mate'. Honestly, I don't do well socially in meeting people in person out in the public world. I tend to meet people online and then meet them in person. In my experience most people will say they are this kind of person or that kind of person or they are into this or into that or enjoy this or that, ect. BUT every time I actually meet the person and then either get into a relationship with them or date them or at least get to know them in person I find that everything I thought they were, they really aren't like that so much and we really don't have much in common. Sure there may be a few things that are true but most of who they say they are, they just don't show it or they make it seem like its a big part of their life when in reality it isn't. Also, in my experience, when I do find someone who seems like the perfect mate for me and says they are into a lot of the same stuff that I am into and has the same values and morals, ect. they are too far away from me to even be able to date them or start a relationship with them. I can never find the perfect mate in the same city as me. Because of that and how rare it is to find my perfect mate I tend to settle for people who are only maybe 25% of the perfect mate. and that 25% never includes the things I care about the most in a relationship.