What I am Looking For

 

I'll be honest, right now things are complicated in my current situation with my daughters mother. I will just say for now that there are issues in our situation of which most likely cannot be fixed. Things aren't really working out at least for her. In my life I've been through a marriage and now a current relationship both of which I had kids. I have 3 kids and DO NOT want anymore kids. If your looking to have kids and have a family then I am not for you. You can be a family with me and my 3 daughters but thats it for me. I think I would prefer to find someone that doesn't have kids of their own unless maybe they are older (Teenager) or grown up and out of the house. But I won't rule out people with younger kids because you never know where love can be found. However, I would preferably like find someone who doesn't have a baby. I have a 7 month old baby girl of my own and do not want anymore babies around. My lil baby girl is enough for me to handle at this point as she has some health issues her mom and I are dealing with. 
 

Right now I want to find someone else who makes me happy and someone I can love and whom loves me for all that I am in my crazy world. I'd also like to be in a situation where I can still be with my daughters and follow them if their mom does in fact move from Indiana which both of us have talked about doing. Just an fyi so your in the loop, we both want to move back to Las Vegas where we moved out here from because we hate it here in Indiana. Right now tho I won't move away from my daughters. 

I have to be honest and say that I gotta be a little picky in who I am looking for. Not to be too picky or shallow or anything but in my current situation I need to find someone of whom has a career and can support themself pretty comfortable and perferably has a house and has a car. Someone that can and is willing to take me in knowing my situation. I really can't be with someone of whom just has a regular job and struggles to make it by themselves or isn't in a position to be with someone in my situation. Now, I know exactly what your thinking right now, that I want someone of whom will support me while I take advantage of them. Not true at all. I try hard to not take advantage of anyone. Yes, its true I don't have a lot of money or a job or a car of my own cause I'm on disbility. But my job right now is a stay at home parent and if I'm with the right person thats compatible with me and we get along and don't have too many issues, I'd like to continue being a stay at home parent so long as you are ok with that. Now I mean no offense to anyone whom works a regular job and really isn't in a situation to take me in. I'm sure your really cool and we might be highly compatible and hit it off really well but I really don't want to be with someone that lives in an apartment or lives with your parents and maybe lives day by day with not much money to do things, ect. I also really don't want to be with someone whom is still going to school for their career. I want to find someone already out of school and preferably established in their career or enough that they are working towards their career goal. I've been in this kind of situation before of living day to day and struggling and living in a cheap apartment and all. I really don't want to go back. I want to keep moving forward in my life and better myself. I just don't want to spend that many more years trying to establish my life all over again. 

 

I guess right now in my life I'd love to find Someone older or younger that is everything I want in a woman or as close to it as possible of whom makes me very happy. Someone who can be a playful flirtatious with me and smile in that beautiful flirtatious way that makes me melt. Someone who will let there hair down especially if it is long, thick, beautiful hair instead of always putting it up in a bun style! Show me that sexy hair down,   playful flirtatious with a sexy flirtatious smile person. After all I am a leo. I absolutely love when a woman is playful and flirtatious with me and shows off their long, thick, beautiful mane. It makes me melt and gives me the good butterflies in my stomach. I can seriously just fall in love with you when you are like this. If you are like this with me you will seriously turn me into a person I am not normally like which is a person week at the knees and falling head over heels in love and someone willing to do things I normally hate or normally don't do. I become a totally different person but I love it because I love those feelings I get. Its very rare to find a person that can make me feel like that. Also someone whom enjoys a little bit of sophistication such as drinking wine and dressing pretty. A woman who doesn't mind wearing dresses and makeup and looking sexy. Love to meet a woman who would love cuddling up on the couch and watch Dirty Dancing or Pretty Woman or a like minded movie and be able to just fall in love with each other through the movie and the music. 

I like woman who can wear the tight jeans or shorts that show off their butts and t-shirts and get a little dirty such as going camping, hiking, fishing, ect. But at the same time I like a woman who can wear dresses and skirts and be a girly girl once in awhile. I also love BBW's and chubby chicks (skinnier woman with a tummy and a big or semi big ass!). They are a real turn on and attraction for me. However I am open to women of all body types. I'd love to find someone who likes me for who I am and/or can respect who I am and what I am all about and the things I am into. Someone who has things in common with me and is willing to take me in and be accepting of my situation. I would love to find a woman who likes to take showers with their man! I love to take showers with my woman but most women I have been with tell me they hate it. I find it kind of romantic, sexy and fun.for more on this see the link to my perfect mate section below. Also, I would prefer to find someone who has a good career (not just a job) and can support themself and isn't struggeling so much to make it working some low wage job. I've been there done that and don't want to go back to that life if I can help it at all. I would love to find someone that has a house as I really don't want to live in an apartment again. I just want the freedom to do what I want and be able to take care of my own place the way we want to and not have to share anything with neighbors as you do in apartments. I know this is a lot to take in and ask of anyone. So for now I am looking and there is always a possibility that situations can change. Please do not let all this and my situation deter you from contacting me. I'm not looking for a free ride or to take advantage of anyone. If you like me and anything you have read in my profile, even if I'm not 100% perfect don't hesitate to message me because if you don't you may just miss out on something special. It may not work out and we may come to find were not right for each other but you'll never know if you don't at least take a chance and try.

 

In a perfect world, the perfect mate is what I would like to find. But I have fully come to expect that its an extreme rarity to find the 'perfect mate' or an good woman who loves me and is willing to be accepting of my situation. It's also an extreme rarity (like 1% chance) that anyone will want to be with or get to know a guy like me especially with who I am and my situation of being a stay at home dad and on disability and having two daughters of which I don't want to leave and want to follow if they move, Living with my kids' mother, no car of my own, ect.

 

If you're the 1% that is interested in getting to know me just message me on the home page or on Facebook.